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hello all my roof is leaking and needs repair i can not find help and i can not afford the repair so im taking a big long shot and i need help it would only take a moment of your time i entered a contest to try to get the funds for the repair but i need people to read my entry it is short and if you like it click vote you can vote 1 time a day i truly need daily voters the link is http://shar.es/m9d2o the0 on the end is a letter not a number if you wish to write it down when you click this link it takes you right to my entry sharon5ply please read and vote for me thankyou all for reading and god bless you all deb
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Schmidty
 in response to nini3...   I've read your post,from what you have told us it's a real nice place.You just worry about getting well. I can take care of myself, although I apprediate what you said.I did tell that person how rude she was and maybe she said something that you caught.It doesn't matter.No matter what help everyone gave her she said no one was helping and that no one wanted to help.So, I kindly told her she was wrong. Whoknew even told her off. I teased whoknew by saying that even though it irrcked me to say so , I agreed with her. Maybe she didn't like it , Haven't read all the post yet. Thank you for your kind words, get well, hope your school work is going fine. talk later. Oh, I just saw where we are,don't know why the screen is going wide.Oh, well. The one below is completely different.It sounded like she was playing everybody and I told her so, I also told her that I'd help anyway.No problem.You'd have to read the whole thing to understand fully. Don't bother, it's old news now.Later.
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Schmidty

It doesn't matter what I think! If you need help ...you need help, period.

I have information that I seriously doubt that you have tried or even know about. I could be wrong, I doubt it though, but if you do have the information then>>>you don't have to worry about it or act upon it.

I thought that getting your roof fixed was the most important thing that you needed.If it were me, I wouldn't give a damn  of what the person, people , organization, etc thought of me as long as i was able to get what I needed done or accomplished.

As for what you think of me, I don't care. It still doesn't deter the fact that you need help with your roof and being the low life that I am , I'm still willing to help. It's up to you. You decide yes or nay!

 If it's yea, then I need to give some information and also ask a few more questions.

If it's nay, then with you claiming that I'm no better than a dog, a mean junkyard dog , then I must look at it like a dog. If I can't eat it, chew it, or hump it. Then I must sniff it  and piss on it  then walk away.

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debbie5ply

look i have given this much thought before replying this time! maybe i am cutting my arm off! when i recieved your responce it was still very clear you have not changed your oppion of me, so be it! but you caused me to form a opion of you and that is you are a very bitter and mean person! we will never be able to communicate in a good and productive way! so for both of us i think it best we discontinue communication! i find it very frustrating as im sure you do to! take care and i will wish you the best! deb

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Schmidty
 in response to debbie5ply...   

I don't know why you are going on about it. I had already dropped it when I said I'd help.

Thank you for the information, it helps in finding certain grants and loans that will help you.

I don't even know why you poated the last post unless you think it helps you somehow.

Like the two monks at the stream, I left it at the river and you are still carrying it.

Are we going to keep doing this or can I get busy trying to find the grants that you need?

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debbie5ply
 in response to Schmidty...   im going to answer your questions! but first i must say something yesterday i was not of the norm, something had happened the night before and i was in quite a emotional place, today i feel stupid! yesterday when i read what you had writing i felt hurt! and i responded defending myself when i had no reason to do such a thing! that is not spomething i would normaly do!i care greatly about what the people in my life think about me that has great importance to me, but a judgement and false statements from someone who knows nothing of me or my total situation should have ment nothing to me. i do recommend that before you do such a thing to another take the time to ask some questions understand where they are truly at before you judge you may find you will meet somebody that you have read wrong and may just find you enjoy communication with that person. you used the example of eggs in a basket ill tell you probley every one that ends up at a sight like this has emptied the basket and now are pulling at the staw that was in the bottom of the basket holding the long gone eggs. if you wish to continue slandering me feel free i will not respond again in defence of myself as i said i have no reason to !so that subject is over for me! know if you truly want to know about my house i live in a very small town, no crime, the homes are kept up very well, no lead paint i have no native blood,no militery bases near me, drugs yes sadly they are everywhere but very little crime related to that issue.did that tell you anything of intrest? all things that i have studied but no means of help for me no qualifiers. deb
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Schmidty

Is your house in the city, urban or rural.

If it's in a city, is it a run down part of town, could there possible be lead paint on the walls. Do you have any native american blood in you?Is there any drug related crime in you area.

Has a militery base closed in your area. I'll probably be asking more questions later.

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debbie5ply
 in response to Schmidty...   look i dont want to fight with you i am who i am and i have not tried to fool anyone please go back through all the blogs and you will see i never said that was my roof i was using a example because my camera is broke any one that uses a computor knows a downloaded piture from a real one it has a properties name when you click on it before you should have started judging me and calling me names if you had questions you should have asked i would gladly have answered i have nothing to hide my roof is a true problem as is my broke down car dont you relize that before i came to sights like this i would have exasted all means of apply for assistance coming here was in desperation i have begged pleaded and lowered myself to the point of embarressment i have always been a strong women i worked hard all my life until i became ill i was one of those people that was always thinking of the future i put money in my savings and 401k plan every week after i became ill to keep up i cleaned it all out only to still end up filing bankrupt last year i don't know if you think i am some kind of stupid person or what but know i am not i went to college for law i worked many years for mbna bank in the fraud dept. you think i have not tried to find the help i need i have gone to every local and state agency in maine only to be denied i have tried chuches, different charities i found on the net and yes i wrote for a federal grant and yes again denied and you think i am not trying as you say putting all my eggs in one basket at this point i have emptied my basket and you say wake up to the real world well i tell you my eyes are wide open and i pray i could just close them for awhile it is not like i don't feel bad enough about myself right now do you truly feel i desearve to be attacked in your blog you have a list of sources of help do you not think i did not check everyone when you sent it to me sadly there was not one for my problem but i was grateful that you took the time to respond to me and i wrote you back and thanked you for your kindness there is no way i can make you think any different of me then you do but it truly is not of importance i have nothing to prove to anyone there are a few in different areas of aid page that i will truly call friend we talk back and forth and share ideas,intrests and just a hey hows your day so i have no regrets for coming to this sight because i have gained something from it! if truly you believe you may have a source for assistance that may help me i am only too open to it i will not turn help away even though you have judged me as this terrible person i will ask you one thing though please check all my listings and writings you will see i never lied!
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Schmidty
 in response to debbie5ply...   

What ever! I don't know you that's for sure but if someone tries to snow someone to me that's as much a lie as my telling someone that I'm 19 years old. A lie is a lie even if it's white.You show me a picture of the internet and try to make it sound as if it's your roof, that's a lie.You can try and make yourself out to be so sweet and innocent, just like a kid with his/or her hand in the cookie jar. No not me. I didn't do nothing.

Now if you really want to work on fixing that roof we can go to private conversation and I can give you all the information that you will need. You couldn't have covered all the bases.

If your story is true, then I apologize but it sounds so phoney. Then the picture of that rood of the net, shame. If you are pulling something i just wanted to let you know that some people aren't fooled by it.

I never have felt this way about anyones story before, never cared really, if you need help you need help. I'd rather have one of those give me's or i want nows then to have some one show pictures and say this is my roof and it isn't. There wasn't a need to fabricate a picture.

Anyway like I said, if you want to really get that roof fixed let me know. I will help. No problem.

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debbie5ply
 in response to Schmidty...   i was not going to respond to this but decided i would first i never lied about the piture read all the blogs never a lie your belief in what i say means nothing to me i know the truth and facts and that is all that truly matters as for all my eggs in one basket you have not a clue at the amount of things i have tried and still am trying i have a situation that is out of my financial means and i will try everything i come across to just maybe find the help i need since for unknown reasons to me considing i have asked nothing from you i have been nothing but kind to all i have ment on these sights i have given info that i have gained to others in hope of giving them help i do not see or understand why you are judging me all i can say is if you have a problem with me thats inside of you and im sorry for you and if you want to believe that i am something im not and judge me with no knowlege of who i even am then i say sad for you!!!!!!!
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Schmidty
 in response to debbie5ply...   

Everybody judges, all the time everyday. Maybe if you hadn't lied in the first place about the picture of the roof I wouldn't have a problem.

I don't know you, and I do honestly hope that I am wrong, but honestly and truly, I don't think so.

It's like marketing on the web, a car sales man, the government,etc. always telling you what you want to hear,speaking in half truths and full lies the whole time.

You can't tell me that you don't judge. Maybe if you hadn't lied in the first place, I wouldn't have such a hard time with it.

You couldn't have tried the resources that I gave you because 95% of the people don't know these resources that's why I put them on here, so people will know.

You have tried them all. Amasing! What about asking you local or nearby college if they have a program where they send out their students to repair senoir and disabled peoples houses? Some of these places don't even know of these programs because everyone wants to keep them secret. More than likely so they don't have to work to hard at it.

You admit that you put up a phoney picture to pass off as your roof, yet you aren't lying. I admit you have a good sells pitch.

Do you have a community partnership near you, a foundation of any kind, a school, a church, that can write grants, then I can give you the information that will help them get the money to help you.

You say you already applied for a grant. Has it been rejected?

With having people who are willing to help you get your roof 'fixed', you ignore them and go for this 'contest'.That doesn't make much sense to me. I can see plugging it but I would also want to know any other way to get my roof fixed, and if I have tried several avenues and they didn't turn up, I'd try some more.

I'd still plug the contest but I would go back to the people who say if that doesn't work then we'll try something else. I wouldn't put all my eggs in one basket and sit them on a fence.

Welcome to the real world.

 

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debbie5ply
 in response to Schmidty...   i feel very sad for you that you can be so judgemental you call me a liar a scam i have tried other ways more then you have any idea of why do i say 3rd place because my house is small and that amount of a win would cover all cost and that is all i have prayed for yes 1st or 2nd would be most incredible but i know my entry is not that good even 3rd would be a incredible long shot of even happening i have tried local state churches red cross united way sights on the internet wrote a grant yes i am trying but feeling very lost and yes i have read your info in which most i have already tried so and got no help yes this is crazy i agree but i felt what do i have to loose but no i am not stupid the odds are way to great to truly believe this could answer my problem the picture i told you before was a downloaded picture that kinda looked like my roof as i do not have a working camera im sorry that you want to see the worst in people and have a hard time with trust and belief sadly i know that there are many people that cause people to feel they always have to wonder and judge and question the only thing i can say to you is no i am far from a scamming person i am not a liar i am just another person trying to find every means possible out there to try to help myself through logicial means crazy means and alot of praying deb
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Schmidty
 in response to debbie5ply...   

Have you checked out my blog? There are a couple of programs I know will help you but you persist on this contest.

I'm beginning to think that you are running a scam of sorts. I  and I'm sure others have offered information for you to "reroof" your house. You ignore true help and insist on this "contest". With your fake roof picture and your insistance on this contest being the only way you can get the 'repairs' done on your house.

In my honest opinion I think you are a fake.You keep saying you hope to win 3rd place, why?  Wouldn't first place be better or even 2nd place?

What are you really up to? You were able to put a fake picture of supposedly your roof  until I called you on it then you "explained" why you used that picture.

You know your way around a computer well enough, you are able to post these cute little picture, and a fake roof until I called you on it, so, if and I mean IF your roof really is that bad it only seems reasonable that you could take a picture of your true roof and house, since it's about ready to fall in, the way you discribe it.

You know it's bad enough that there are so manypeople that need assistance and are disabled in a country as great as ours, but it's a sad sad thing that someone who is probably smart has to resort into taking peoples charity, good nature, and willingness to helpjust tobe greedy and take the help away from someone who could really use it.

I can get the picture you tried to pawn off as yours and the explaination that you gave me and the other post that you have posted and show you what I mean.

As I told you before , I could be wrong, but I don't think so. The scales are unbalnced and in the wrong direction.

These people are willing to give, anything they can, and do, to help someone else who may or may not be in better shape than what they are in. It seems to me that you have a different aganda, more of a grab and run. I really wish that this feeling i have is wrong but usually when I get it I'm not.

When I had to research and write grievances, it was like being a detective and a journalist with the Who, What, When, Where and How.

I also told you that if you couldn't find anything to suite you to let me know and I could give you more avenues to get your roof fixed.If you needed that roof fixed that bad you would have contacted me or someone else who was willing to help, to get that information, instead you want to win 3rd, not 1st, not 2nd place but 3rd place in this contest. I think it's a sham. Deb

It's my opinion and my opinion alone.The person there playing the violin loud and clear is ' sharon5ply ', with no mention ofgetting a roof shingles and the roof falling in.

You are a good writer but you tend to pull on the heart srtrings way to much.Use your writing skills to write a good story, not play on the emotions of people who are doing all they can to help each other in bad situations.

You are really trying for one of those ipad they are offering, aren't you. The top prizes are $10,000, $5,000, and $2,500 and so many ipads to runners up. If your roof is that bad you'd need the 2nd prize.

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debbie5ply
 in response to MissB...   hello thankyou for reading and for replying but sadly the problem is i can not work any more i worked hard all my life but i am quite ill now i do get disability but it is not enough to handle this problem i tried for local and state help for the repairs but thats not happening so i figured what do i have to loose by entering the contest if i could get 3rd place it would cover my need but it is something i need help from others to make happen so i came and tried to find people to just go to the link 1 time a day and click vote i figured i had nothing to loose i just needed some caring people to give a moment of their day and some great prayers  god bless you deb`
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MissB

You could try a temp agency, that will help until you find something else. Also, you could land a full time job.

Good Luck

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debbie5ply

please all go to http://shar.es/m9d2o and click a vote for me entry called alone and empty i need daily votes please help me out trying to win 3rd place to reshingle my roof its leaking bad but i need help bless you all deb

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debbie5ply
thankyou so kindly for your caring words i wish i could find a job but i am disabled i recieve disability thank god for that but there just isnt any thing left over after my bills and meds so that is why i took the long shot and entered the contest my roof is in very bad shape i can not afford the repair and i can find no help so i figured i had nothing to loose by trying a contest and praying all i need is 3rd place and it would meet my need thats why i have been asking people to go to the site and click vote on my entry each day because they will notice the ones that are getting votes a couple people from this sight have been helping me god bless their hearts but i still need more please if you have any intrest in giving a moment of your day to me the link is in the posting above it takes you right to my entry its called alone and empty then you just click vote i would be very grateful for another person to help me thanks for responding to me that means alot prayers to you deb
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debbie5ply
 in response to DawnMariexx...   smiles to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! deb
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debbie5ply
 in response to DawnMariexx...   i will pray you will find a position very soon what a noble job you have chosen the very best to you deb
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DawnMariexx

Hi alot of you already know me, Im DawnMarie, im from NewYork, BayRidge Brooklyn...Im CareGiver Companion and hspr....Im seeking a position in my Area, the days would be for Mondays, Wednesdays and Thursdays, if u need weekends thats fine....I work on a day basis my rates vary but very affordable and can be negociated...

I have over 5 yrs exp in ElderCare and also have excellent references!!!

This would have to be off the books...

Ive exhausted all of my resources and have posted everywhere, including my favorite "craigslist and backpage"

If u know of any parishes that are seeking CareGivers or anyone that needs a CareGiver in BayRidge or know of any other resources that might be helpful to me, please let me know i would greatly appreciated!!! thanks so much

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